Do You...

• Believe you are to blame for your partner's abusive behavior?
• Walk on eggshells to keep from making him angry
• Feel like a non-person with no rights to your feelings or thoughts?

Does He/She...

• Act one way in public and another way at home (Jekyll & Hyde)?
• Criticize you for little things and call you names?
• Become angry easily?
• Destroy personal property or sentimental items?
• Try to control you by withholding money, keep you from getting a job or keeping one?
• Isolate you from your support systems, family, and resources and call them "trouble makers"?
• Threaten or actually do physical harm?
• Use force during sex against your wishes?